Happy Now? Happy?

In Act 2, Scene 2, of Hamlet, the doomed Rosencrantz and Guildenstern are chatting with the prince. They are old college buddies of Hamlet’s, and King Claudius (Hamlet’s step-father) and Queen Gertrude (his mother) have sent for them to learn what is bothering the young man, who has been acting with an “antic disposition” and saying strange things, half to himself and half to, well, no one can tell who.

Hamlet greets them and speaks in the same riddling manner that he has been using with the rest:

HAMLET: Let me question more in particular, my good friends, what you have done to deserve such fortune, that she sends you to prison hither?
GUILDENSTERN: Prison, my lord?
HAMLET: Denmark’s a prison.
ROSENCRANTZ: Then the world is one.
HAMLET: A goodly one; in which there are many confines, wards, and dungeons, Denmark being one o’ the worst.
ROSENCRANTZ: We don’t think so, my lord.
HAMLET: Why, then ’tis none to you; for there is nothing either good or bad but thinking makes it so. To me it is a prison.

Hamlet quickly determines that they are not merely dropping in to talk about sports and the weather but are spies. Ultimately, he manages to have them both killed.

Shakespeare’s quip about how one’s thinking determines a thing’s relative goodness or badness has lived on through the centuries, but in most peoples’ recitations nowadays it carries about the same weight as a Twittering teenager’s hashtagging of “YOLO.” (#YOLO. #Ugh.) Perhaps this is because the judgement is delivered by a character who has been speaking in riddles and jests and pretending to be mad. (Uh, Hamlet, “What are you reading?” “Words, words, words.” Petulant.)

Four hundred years after Hamlet was first performed, “Nothing (is) either good or bad but my thinking makes it so” is spoken as a longer, a more profound-sounding, version of, “Don’t sweat the small stuff.”

“The rain is uncomfortable for you but it’s good news for the farmers,” speaks the profound thinker who apparently wants me to punch him. (I once replied to this with a “Do you know any farmers? We live in the suburbs. If you do, see if they’re carrying umbrellas, too.” The person walked away, which of course was the only proper reply to my being a jerk.) (The two of us are still friends. I have my good points, I have been told.)

Many people resist strongly and vocally when it is suggested that, taken existentially, Shakespeare and/or Hamlet is right. Our perception is all that defines good from bad. A happy event, in and of itself, is not inherently a good thing. Outside of love, whatever that is, there is no such thing as “good.” And a tragic happening, a sad event, is not by definition evil. (I would never insist on this philosophical point with someone who is enduring a deep loss or a sadness. Perhaps this makes me a philosophical wimp, but I sleep at night.) We carry with us a deep commitment to the idea that there is evil in the universe as well as good and that good inheres in things we like and love and that evil is a containable reality. This is because most of us combine and conflate the notions of sad with bad and happy with good.

Some of the saddest things that I have seen have had positive things follow them, possibly as a result of reactions to the sad thing. (For instance, I am disabled and that sucks, and I would not wish the experience on people whom I dislike, but being disabled gives me an income, a teeny-tiny one, which gives me the time to write. Sad or happy? But the income is so small that I can not jet off to those exciting bloggers’ conferences that probably do not exist. A small example, yes, but reality resides on a spectrum and not in an either-or or zero-sum playhouse.) And some of the best things that I think I have done may turn out yet to have terrible consequences. Sadness exists. Tragedy is a reality. But so is happiness. So is love.

Are there people who do wrong in this world? Yes. People who introduce sadness into peoples’ lives or who work for their own personal gain to the detriment of others around them? Of course. Hamlet was no murderer but he had Rosencrantz and Guildenstern killed. These are fictional characters, of course.

Look at Hitler’s baby picture. People celebrated that birth and cooed at the infant. Hitler existed.

If evil is inexplicable, well, then, so is good. We want all matters to be explicable, however, so we deploy terms like “good” and “evil” as if they are tools that explicate.

Further, our minds want there to be someone to credit or something to blame behind the good or the evil thing. There must be an explanation, goes the thinking. Thus, there must be a find-able motivation animating even the explicably good thing or the evil person. The great journalist Ron Rosenbaum explores this in his famous book, “Explaining Hitler,” which confronts the book buyer from the start, the front cover. Hitler’s baby picture sits there. Historians have searched for decades for the clues to pinpoint the moment baby Adolf became monster Hitler. What was the cause? The explanation? It seems that it is not okay if there is not one. But “here there is no why,” as Martin Amis writes of Auschwitz.

Rosenbaum interviewed Alan Bullock, one of Hitler’s major biographers. “‘Some days, I ask God,’ Bullock told me, his voice dropping to an impassioned whisper, ‘If You were there, why didn’t You stop it?’ And then he added the sad lesson of a lifetime spent attempting to explain Hitler: ‘Never believe God is omnipotent.'”

Boom! Is the Holocaust, or a holocaust, a man-made political rampage, something so far outside our human imagination even when it is always and only is the product of human imagination?

Yehuda Bauer, a Holocaust Studies scholar, replies to Rosenbaum’s question, “Will there ever be a why?” “Bauer told me that he believes it is theoretically possible. ‘But the fact that something is explicable doesn’t say that we have explained it.'”

Terrible acts and tragedies are the horrible outliers of most human experiences. The beautiful thing is that love, great love and small love, is not. And it is just as inexplicable … until I gaze in my beloved’s eyes.

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When this first appeared last year, a reader wrote, “I remember when I realized that Life never promised me anything. I think, as a society, we think that we deserve to have good things happen. In fact many good and bad experiences are random and have nothing to do with who we are. It’s our responsibility to take those experiences and do the best that we can with them.” I think she stated in a handful of words what it took me a thousand to get to.

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  1. elizaberrie · June 5, 2015

    Very good! 😉

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  2. Martha Kennedy · June 5, 2015

    My piano teacher was a German Jew who was smuggled out of Germany. He played with a symphony in New York and retired to a small town in Nebraska that reminded him of his home in Germany. He was the happiest person I’ve ever known. He wrote me a letter — two of them — after I moved away. One said, “Don’t be homesick. Think of the mountains and how happy you are to be there again.” The other said, “Life gives us much to fear. The important thing is to bear up and know that courage comes through fear.” He taught me to play a Polonaise by Chopin (who else?) and said, “He had to leave Poland forever. It is a hard thing to leave your homeland and know you can never return, so he wrote songs from his country to ease his sadness.” Then, he demonstrated the song for me. I was lucky in my life to have known a lot of brave and resilient people.

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  3. wscottling · June 5, 2015

    Did you ever see the movie Rosencrantz and Guildenstern are Dead? It also deals with the ambiguities of language, happiness, sadness, good and evil, and most importantly, the necessity of it all. Thanks for another thought provoking post.

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  4. loisajay · June 5, 2015

    Remember that not famous saying, “I never promised you a rose garden?” Just checking, Mark. I like this post.

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  5. Catherine Hamrick · June 6, 2015

    Thanks so much for sharing this piece. On Twitter, I noticed you passed the milestone of 500 followers. More will find you! Do you post on LinkedIn? That is, do you take advantage of posting on Pulse? Your essays would fit.

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  6. Mark Aldrich · June 6, 2015

    Thank you, Catherine! I have a LinkedIn profile (http://www.linkedin.com/pub/mark-aldrich/39/828/b66), and these columns automatically get posted to it (as far as I know). Nothing has come out of having a LinkedIn profile, but then again I haven’t been trying to make anything come from having one. I’m not sure what my ambitions are at this point. I’ve had two book deals and both fell through: the first, because I really hadn’t started writing again, and not writing is pretty lethal condition for a book project, and the second, well, I ended that one when the person the book was about (is about–I sincerely hope she found someone else) revealed some thoughts that I was not going to be able to ignore while writing an honest profile. I think my ambitions are pretty small: make some money as a writer to supplement my small income. This website may be my legacy as a writer and I am content with that.

    Thank you for your many encouraging comments.


  7. Anonymous · June 7, 2015

    your writing is always thought-provoking and interesting.one of my favorite bloggers… 💫


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